Thinking of your first kiss or about to even have your first kiss can be daunting and yes the obv’s Scary much! but don’t worry that’s why ‘The Make-Out’ is here as we are ‘somewhat’… ‘experts’ on sexual knowledge and relationships.
Why is it
Your first kiss could be daunting and or spooky! because anything that you don’t know or don’t know how to do can give you chills,nerves and a crazy amount of adrenaline that gives you sweaty palms. but look on the bright side these things (symptoms) only happen if your’e genuinely attracted to someone especially if its at first sight. depending on who you will be kissing whether they haven’t had any kissing experience like you or if they had a little before your worrying because you want to make a good impression. in addition if you really are a first timer then you’ve probably heard or read up on a lot of stories about kissing such as ‘we kissed and it was like kissing a wet dog’ or ‘when we kissed it was magical but then we bumped teeth and got our braces caught’ either way don’t get worked up (humiliation is apart of learning from mistakes and growing up) we ‘The Make-Out’ will Guide you to hopefully making your first kiss a memorable one.
The Do’s & Dont’s before K.I.S.S.I.N.G
Mouth Hygiene Must’s:
- Brush teeth thoroughly especially the tongue as it carries the most odors
- Make sure that you avoid bad smelly and staining foods as all your preparations would be out the door
- Use a breath mint to neutralize your breath
- Scrub your lips to make them soft and kissable, use any lip oil you can find and use a tooth brush to scrub the dry flaky skin off your lips but don’t do this for too long or too hard as it can make you look like you have too much of a fuller lip like Angelina Jolie
Mouth Hygiene Dont’s:
- Eat bad smelly kebabs and onion crisps it really will transfer + make your teeth all mucky
- Not eating! as when you don’t eat your saliva becomes very dry and the plaque on your teeth forms an odor
- Using too much freshers and mints as sometime it can be too overpowering + some people may hate the taste of mint or worse it could bring on an allergic reaction
Physical Must’s:
- Look the person in the eyes to show your affections
- Speak with your eyes by looking at what you like the most about them
- Use your hands to secure them and lead them
- A small rubbing on the waist for a girl is good and for a guy a rub on the back is great to feel a spark
Physical Dont’s:
- Look them in the eyes whilst kissing them as its creepy
- Dont stare at there private parts e.g breast and or penis as it may send the wrong message
- Dont place your hands in inappropriate areas e.g bum or breasts as it may offend another or show peer pressure
- Depending on the space your in don’t throw the person around it may be too vigorous and one could feel taken advantage of
How To Kiss
There’s no trick to Kissing as its a natural thing that you have to grasp on your own but there are a few tips to get you started:
- At first make sure your lips are some what moist enough but not where its an obvious moistness of saliva on your lips
- When making contact tilt your head to one side (the other person should tilt to the opposite side of you) this will all be easy with eye contact and touching each others faces with your hands (gently) to lead one another
- When making lip contact the rule is to open your mouths using your lips, simply with a gentle press on the lips you both should just open your mouths (this depends whether your going to use tongues e.g french kiss but if not then your mouths should remain slightly closed)
- If your using tongues be sure to just not stick your tongue in, simply his and hers should glide in slowly and or take turns then after just a simple swirl motion within the mouth is all that it requires be sure to retract out at times as we don’t want the kiss to turn into feeling like your ‘diving into the deepest end of a pool’
Please note: you don’t have to always go straight in for the kiss you could try kissing the persons cheek first, holding hands and or just telling them that your nervous e.t.c because if its your first time it will alleviates any pressure that you may have.
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